When YOU decide it's time to change... there is no turning back. You are numb to pain. YOU become a different existence of humanness. You think, act and do "whatever it takes" to reach your goal. Your existence becomes more focused on what needs to be done rather than what you have time to do. If you have a goal and your mindset isn't in "this" head space then you are soon going to have to come to the conclusion that you are just not ready to succeed.
No more excuses! Get with the program!